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Saturday, July 21, 2007

LoVinG youRselF oR LovinG SomeBody eLse?

Are you loving yourself or loving somebody else? what is the different? You NEED somebody else or you WANT somebody else? Love is a strong possesive feeling towards other, if you find out you WANT somebody else very much , mean you are falling in love to him/her no matter what they have done to you, either they are making you happy or making you suffering..If you need somebody else to be with with you for jz making you happy, pls be reminded that you are jz loving yourself, i didnt mean that you are selfish or wat,coz both loving other or being loved by other are also the right way in love, but in this stage you jz NEED him/her, not WANT him/her....you may feel happy to be with him/her but they are jz something in making you feel hapy or watever, may be in others' eye you two are couple, are meant to be ,but...well , for me, you are jz running away from the true love , coz you may have to suffer or cannot be so happy if you choose to with someone you WANT him/her so much... Love is the feeling that you will think about what you gonna do with him/her in future at night till you cant close your eye, or even you close your eye but still cant asleep...Love is something that you care about her/his feeling no matter in what situation, not only a "bye" but is " i gotta go , miss you"...Love is not that you hide everything from him/her and expecting him/her to understand you , but is you wanna try your best to understand her/him....Love is that you want to give your all to him/her ,but not expectiing him/her to give watever he/she can to you ...Love is that one you WANT him/her every single moment, not only at a particular moment...that is how I interpret LOVE...so what is your interpretion for love? Are you loving yourself or Loving somebody else? You NEED him/her or WANT him/her? ...wish all the couples in the world is loving with their tru love..

1 comment:

GheeOon said...

Agree wif everything u wrote...Nice piece of writing...Love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly. Sometimes when one is lonely and suddenly someone just pop up in their life n make him/her happy, they thought that they love him/her but they are wrong. Like wat u said they just loving themselves not him/her... Love is like missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart. Love is miracle sometimes. We can just fall in love like snapping our fingers-love at first sight...
Seeing from another view, sometimes love is not dat wonderful. It can make one suffer too. I am sure there is alot of people hurt by their loved ones and sometimes it makes them don't dare or even notice when a door has opened for them.
So, it is up to the individual to love or not to love...
One day you will find ur true love too and i hope that you are loving her and not loving urself...lolx...

By Shan Shan at 12/7/2007