Yeah I agree and a lot of people agree with it, but indeed how many people can really do that? Especially our beloved females-in-relationship, who always like to compare their bf's wealth with other's ( or what my her bf just brought to her la bla bla bla la) just like the auntie compare their child's academy success with their siblings', neighbors' . Even though we all know that this comparison will bring tremendous pressure to our children and such a lot of pressure to us - MALEs-In-Relationship- but who really care??? I believe they (female) used to come across to the title of study and pressure bla bla bla during secondary school essay and come out with a point that parent should not compare their child with others' or news that child jump down from their house because of study pressure.. Yet. How many of them will stop compare us with other???
Let's share some of my PE ( Personal Experience ),
First Case, common case-
A gal she always like to tell her bf how rich the guy is, how nice his car was, and at the end come out with the conclusion that," how nice if you are also rich just like him!". and at the moment, what is just right in my mind is , "Fuck, even he is rich, but it doesn't mean he will give you that, or not even he will consider to take you as his gf right?and I believe at least your current depressed-by-your-complain bf is giving you much more thing than that guy do, even the value is not so high. And the most important is, I guess if I'm her bf, and if one day I get as rich as the guy I will start consider of dumping you already @@"
Second case, boy & gal equal right?-
Some gals told me, when I first on with my bf, I dare not to use his money. But now, I want to use his money as much as possible, sometime I can even to tell him that, "haihz, you no longer love me?" .[all right, mean his love just worth the hundreds RM ma?I did not speak it out la] and I ask "Why?" "Of course la, if one day they go find some other gal le? how if one day they dump me leh?" and again right in my mind "Goshhh, so that is avenge in future that you can foresee? so how if your bf doesn't do that to you after all or you are the one to dump him? ? What you are going to compensate him? Let him use your money back ma? Think about it!!! And I asked "Why not AA ?" , They said," since last time boy pay gal de ma if they go dating~" and now what again, last time female know how to cook a delicious meal, know how to needle point, know how to keep the whole house clean. What you know? You not even know how to keep your own room CLEAN&TIDY!!! And furthermore, it is a bit rude but I still going to say that, last time when the guy say I need it, the gal just get laid obediently on the bed no matter is it her period time or she felt not comfortable for it and open their leg big enough for the cock to sink deep into vagina, and now why you don't do that??? Since last time already like that ma. THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!
Third case, what the heck is in your mind??-
A gal said, we should use our bf money as much as possible because we are rugi~ing when they are holding our hand, hugging us, kissing us, and further do....Come on gals, don't think you are so innocent, both male and female get to stay in their mom's stomach for 9 months before come to the earth, so I (male) holding your (Female) hand mean you are rugi??? What the wrong concept you have!! Even we talk about having an intimacy-on-bed-exercise, so we (male) are the only one enjoy it? You (Female) are not? Just try to ask yourself, among the 10s on-bed-exercise, how many time is because of your bf's request and how many times is your request???For those gals who have the wrong concept, I sincerely beg you gal to stand up, you don;t need a guy to live in his society and you are no longer in the lower position to guy, and if you not going to change your mindset yourself, nobody is going to make the world different for you. I believe gal and boy are equal right.
All right, the post might be a bit rude but it is real, and I have no hard feeling against any gal whose example is in this post. I still respect you as a single being. Think about it. I love gals : )
P.s and of course there are many gals in the world who are not like what said in the blog, have no offend to every gal on the planet and the word "you" or "you gals" or "gals" are not referring to the every female out there.
Last but not least, I'm a MODERATE person *wink*
13 comments:
yeah totally agree with u especially the first one...think about urself before complaining others. u r right. if ur bf is rich will u be an option to him??? what's wrong with the $$$ thing...typical thinking... XD
Be frank, nowadays money is really everything. Comparison is nowadays human nature.
It is common thought for woman to think, my husband must be rich, must be able to give me this, give me that, but a woman only need a promise. A promise from guy who saying, I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER. How many guys and how many gals can really do so ?
Sometimes, u also need to accept the fact that, boy and gal really not that equal rights de la ! >.< but it depend on how weel u know the gal. there is a cantonese phrase ' even she fart, u also say smell nice de la' right ? so choose wisely before with this gal ! 0.<
Yup, 人选你,你选人。some of the gal especially if u are dating during ur study time, well don't be too serious, coz she might not be ur marriage candidate. Till u get a marriage candidate then she might not care whether u rich or poor, coz that is LOVE, but nowadays kurang lo
You remind me of reality...Is girls out there really doing what you're saying? Maybe I'm naive. Or maybe because my-girlfriend-who-has-boyfriend doesn't do this. So I'm not exposed to all this. But I have a few ladies out there, saying people like us are stupid for not spending from the other half.I'm not being brainwashed so far. I think there should be a boundary. It's okay if a guy himself offer to pay. But girl has to be sensitive enough to know their condition. Not wrong for a girl to pay once in a while. If you can't afford, go somewhere where you can save. Never complain about the other half because nobody is perfect. After reading your post, I'm kinda sad to know that now in 'guy's thinking' is planted MOST girls are having this attitude already. I wish you know, somewhere out there if you're lucky enough...there are girls who are for love and not money.
P/S: Hi Shan...Our golongan sudah dicemari bad impression. Help me rebuild them :D
@Shan: Yes, Thx for commentting
@a.k.a: Thx for commenting but as I said in my previous post, all the story is not based on my own relationship, and me and my gal doing well o : )
@ChengLing: Yea, the story is based on my experience in my life ( not my own relationship yea) and it's of course a lot gals out there is not as what I've written here, I'm not thinking all the gal that way. And congraz you that you are not exposed to this. : )
我很很赞同你的看法!现代社会的女性,就是酱的想法!
case 1
他们很喜欢比较,尤其是那男朋友来比~谁得比较厉害,做什么工,谁比较有钱~但大多数将的case,到最后还是被他飞了!过后就投诉,他妈的,酱的男朋友要的。给我都不要。他有钱,他就可以玩,当他女友是换来换去;不是很有钱的人,就比较保守,没多余的钱去玩,就如比较忠心,当他女友是老婆。可是也不要太穷啦。可是在这21世纪,应该没有穷人的吧~
case2
女人就是要用到男人的钱才开心的,但男人就要小心咯~为什么将说呢?如果女人就是一直用男人的钱,那男人就要小心的,她随时会飞你。如果她真的爱他,不会将对他的。和她们怕吃亏,要拿回他们应得的利益。。所以就用尽他的钱吧~
case3
不用多说。。赞同你~!!
A gal said, we should use our bf money as much as possible because we are rugi~ing when they are holding our hand, hugging us, kissing us, and further do。。如果你是卖身的,你可以将说~!
我是谁?你应该知道吧朋友~
chengling
那当然有些人是除外啦~也有好人坏人~gheeoon的post比较适合kl人看。。
哈哈哈,谁懂你是谁啊?又没有报上名来,不过应该是cari 的KL kaki,因为只有cari 的人叫我gheeoon ^^
sorry u name i copy from here.
听你语气应该是男的吧,报上名来?hehe
To anonymous,whoever you are I can't read most of the Mandarin you wrote. But I had them explain to me. Anyway...Ghee Oon, your post make me thing deep today, I'm quite sadden by it. Not just this, but what I see through my eyes. Thank you for your post:)
It's good to hear that my post got such an impact although my 1119 didnt get A1 : )
anyway, if you guy got or come through the similar post but talk about guys de, please let me know. I really wonder what our guy was in you gal mind : )
no idea what that anonymous is talking about but i know who is he. he need to translate to me tmr...XD
mama ya la some ppl just mencemari ppl like us...sigh...kerana nila setitik rosak sebelanga susu.
agree that there is people like this outside. but we can't blame the gals as well. observing guys, i found that most of the guys can't accept to use gals money. typical in their thinking that guys should pay the bill. what's wrong with share.
spending too much on guys... that's gals to be blame of unless u have a rich bf which are able to earn but not using father, grandfather, great grandfather money. a rich guy in my context is a guy that able to earn and let his gal to spend without even thinking. don't say i am dreaming. i have an example here. with the progress of that guy and gal spends and cant even earn how long do u think the money will survive in today's world...not even able to support their children by that time.
do we have to be so calculative in a relationship? quote u "A gal said, we should use our bf money as much as possible because we are rugi~ing when they are holding our hand, hugging us, kissing us, and further do" u love him or his money??? why not ask ur bf to go thailand or pudu??? isn't it the same??? they pay for it as well... nonsense to this typical thinking to whoever it is...sorry being rude. as this totally ruin the gals image...
i guess ppl have mistaken the concept of being in a relationship. sometimes they just take for granted. some ppl just can't bear the feeling of being lonely. they just need ppl to satisfy them. i guess that would be the kind of relationship that is calculative as mentioned in ur third case
eh..in my post i clearly stated that the post does not refer to every gal out there yea, I know there are still good gal like chaushanshan,mommy chenling, my gal and so so much on...
btw, who is the anonymous? wyman ?
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