__Love Corner 2__

Care of Not Care? Angry or not angry ?

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Sometime, I just say sometime , we angry is because of we care , we mind towards him/her , but some might view it as restriction and say I need more freedom ( last time only guy think it is a restriction or control , but nowadays gals share the centimental too , gal and guy are equally alike nowadays ), well when we dont care and dont mind anymore , they might think are you no longer love me ? Well, i find that that only gal has the latter part of thinking , most of guys wont do that , they might be more happy if you really no care him .

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So , what should we do ? Act care when we are not and act not care when we are? should we care or no care? Angry or not angry ? But since he/ she cant make it why we should angry anymore ? Is it worth to argue the same things over and over again ?

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I have came across many exmaples, some of my clients complained to me about their another half are so ignorance about them while some said , their another half are so troublesome in wanting to know everythings about them .I think it is quite hard to find the balance.

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Love is tolerance, you care , not necessary must show through your act , your word , your disappointed tones when they fail you , but dont ever not to care , what else is there when you no longer care the person you love ?

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恩与大家共勉之

__Love Corner . 1__

It has been 6 months since I'm in relationship , things change , way at viewing things no longer the same.

What is your definition for Love ? Some said, love is just like a house , those are outside craving to go in while those already inside yearning to come out, while some said , Love is like an ice cream , taste sweet but melt soon , the enthusiasm, the zeal and the feeling will fade as time go on , and I guess how to keep the relationship fresh is one of the biggest challenge for everyone who is in love .

I was asked about this question before , and my answer is , I believe Love is how much you can do for her, not but how much she can do for you, naive yet I'm still strongly believe in it . However I do have another definition for subjective question ,

Love is just like a market place , you have to predict what you customer's need ( only one customer is preferable ) so you can always cater the desirable product or service.

Honestly , does any girl do not wish that their Bf has something for them to praise for in front of their friends, to make them feel proud, to make them feel they have neither made the wrong mistake or choose the wrong guy ? In fact , they do , and they do not because of they are demanding , as many guys think their spouses are , but they are just like your beloved mom , which mother does not wish their son grow up to be a better man , wiser person ? and have you ever say your mom is demanding when they searching for the right tutor for you , send you to school , teach you how to pronounce sand and send?

Instead of just say if she is yours even you not going to do anything she will still be yours, put in a little more effort and make you and she happy, it is always worth.