我不知道你把爱摆在那里?
在心理口里还是只在表里
用嘴巴说的我爱你
我不愿意
我不知道我是否算是你的唯一?
你需要人陪我却不能在你那里
明明知道我介意
你却一意孤行
是你太任性?
还是我。。。。不明白事理
Happy Valentine to every couple , there are always some argument between you and your beloved, solve it well and it make your love long lasting
About Me
- GheeOon
- GeorGeTown, PenanG, Malaysia
- Ong Ghee Oon_Laukao_ A used to be not-so-confident guy, but not now!! Always want his best when decide to do something
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
__Love Corner . 4__
Is your relationship is a 1 Dimensional Steady State heat convection system or 1 Dimensional Transient System ?A steady State system, you will find your temperature ( love) at maximum at the starting and ending point but lowest in the middle point, your process should be going fine in the right direction, and it remain so for steady state system. However if there are an set up error , it might go wrong to other direction and the temperature wont get their expected position, those you pay will be your gain, and the graph you get you just shit and have to sit down and analyze which way go down and cause the relationship failure just like what I obtain in my lab ( real experiment ) . A transient system which is temperature always change with time, you have to fear what might be the next temperature the next second, it can be increasing significantly or just drop to zero and say "GoodBye, there are someone better than you " to you, it might be challenging but unpredictable and always discouraging for me. You might need 1 years, 5 years or whole life to figure out is the experiment conducted successfully, no set up mistake, right data recording method. But some do only need 3 months or less to conclude there is a experiment failure.....Well, I wish mine is the Internal Heat Generating 1 Dimension Steady State System....
Sunday, January 24, 2010
__Love Corner. 3 __
For Guys:
For Gals:
一个男孩愿意轻易向你说对不起,并不是他的道歉很廉价,只不过他
心 疼你生气的样子,就算不是他的错.....
如果一个女孩已经给了你她的100 分,你还要向她要求什么?
For Gals:
一个男孩愿意轻易向你说对不起,并不是他的道歉很廉价,只不过他
心 疼你生气的样子,就算不是他的错.....
__Delta 3rd Sem 1st Week__
Just finish my first 30 km in life, finish around 3 hours, although it is quite a satisfying result yet i do realize something during the run .
I will not taking any long distance run (10 km above)competition during the next 3 years, apart from some personal reasons , I would like to take a break because i feel i m going too fast in making the running distance further and further even I'm not well prepared , and I dont like it . I do plan to give myself 3 years to focus in training and prepare myself well for my first Full Marathon. As a conclusion , I'm making myself to feel the hunger, but would I be able to stand by the hunger or beaten by the easy day , we will see it after 3 years.
There are some happy news and some just a bit heart breaking. Wish everything will be fine after all.
I will not taking any long distance run (10 km above)competition during the next 3 years, apart from some personal reasons , I would like to take a break because i feel i m going too fast in making the running distance further and further even I'm not well prepared , and I dont like it . I do plan to give myself 3 years to focus in training and prepare myself well for my first Full Marathon. As a conclusion , I'm making myself to feel the hunger, but would I be able to stand by the hunger or beaten by the easy day , we will see it after 3 years.
There are some happy news and some just a bit heart breaking. Wish everything will be fine after all.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
__Love Corner 2__
Care of Not Care? Angry or not angry ?
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Sometime, I just say sometime , we angry is because of we care , we mind towards him/her , but some might view it as restriction and say I need more freedom ( last time only guy think it is a restriction or control , but nowadays gals share the centimental too , gal and guy are equally alike nowadays ), well when we dont care and dont mind anymore , they might think are you no longer love me ? Well, i find that that only gal has the latter part of thinking , most of guys wont do that , they might be more happy if you really no care him .
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So , what should we do ? Act care when we are not and act not care when we are? should we care or no care? Angry or not angry ? But since he/ she cant make it why we should angry anymore ? Is it worth to argue the same things over and over again ?
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I have came across many exmaples, some of my clients complained to me about their another half are so ignorance about them while some said , their another half are so troublesome in wanting to know everythings about them .I think it is quite hard to find the balance.
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Love is tolerance, you care , not necessary must show through your act , your word , your disappointed tones when they fail you , but dont ever not to care , what else is there when you no longer care the person you love ?
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恩与大家共勉之
Sunday, November 22, 2009
__Love Corner . 1__
It has been 6 months since I'm in relationship , things change , way at viewing things no longer the same.
What is your definition for Love ? Some said, love is just like a house , those are outside craving to go in while those already inside yearning to come out, while some said , Love is like an ice cream , taste sweet but melt soon , the enthusiasm, the zeal and the feeling will fade as time go on , and I guess how to keep the relationship fresh is one of the biggest challenge for everyone who is in love .
I was asked about this question before , and my answer is , I believe Love is how much you can do for her, not but how much she can do for you, naive yet I'm still strongly believe in it . However I do have another definition for subjective question ,
Love is just like a market place , you have to predict what you customer's need ( only one customer is preferable ) so you can always cater the desirable product or service.
Honestly , does any girl do not wish that their Bf has something for them to praise for in front of their friends, to make them feel proud, to make them feel they have neither made the wrong mistake or choose the wrong guy ? In fact , they do , and they do not because of they are demanding , as many guys think their spouses are , but they are just like your beloved mom , which mother does not wish their son grow up to be a better man , wiser person ? and have you ever say your mom is demanding when they searching for the right tutor for you , send you to school , teach you how to pronounce sand and send?
Instead of just say if she is yours even you not going to do anything she will still be yours, put in a little more effort and make you and she happy, it is always worth.
What is your definition for Love ? Some said, love is just like a house , those are outside craving to go in while those already inside yearning to come out, while some said , Love is like an ice cream , taste sweet but melt soon , the enthusiasm, the zeal and the feeling will fade as time go on , and I guess how to keep the relationship fresh is one of the biggest challenge for everyone who is in love .
I was asked about this question before , and my answer is , I believe Love is how much you can do for her, not but how much she can do for you, naive yet I'm still strongly believe in it . However I do have another definition for subjective question ,
Love is just like a market place , you have to predict what you customer's need ( only one customer is preferable ) so you can always cater the desirable product or service.
Honestly , does any girl do not wish that their Bf has something for them to praise for in front of their friends, to make them feel proud, to make them feel they have neither made the wrong mistake or choose the wrong guy ? In fact , they do , and they do not because of they are demanding , as many guys think their spouses are , but they are just like your beloved mom , which mother does not wish their son grow up to be a better man , wiser person ? and have you ever say your mom is demanding when they searching for the right tutor for you , send you to school , teach you how to pronounce sand and send?
Instead of just say if she is yours even you not going to do anything she will still be yours, put in a little more effort and make you and she happy, it is always worth.
Monday, October 26, 2009
__I'm Back__
It had been a long time , since I update my blog and train seriously for my running career after I get frustrated during Men's health Run. Run, as i might be during this past 3 months, but not train, both stamina and endurance have fall significantly. Not taking part in competition is another reason for not train properly and the consequences is getting a suffocating lung and rusted leg. Anyway, I will take part in the Coming GE 30km Run which according to a not-so-dependable source, it will be held in MMU cyberjaya at 24-01-2010 and it will be my COME BACK!!!
Here is the training schedule for this coming 2 months
Date:01-11-09 Distance:11.8km Goal:70minutes
Time: 61 minutes
Remark:Finally, rust on my lung has been shaken off!!
Date:19-11-09 Distance:20.8km Goal: 135 minute
Date:22-11-09 Distance 22.2km Goal:145minute
Date:26-11-09 Distance:23.6km Goal:150minute
Date:29-11-09 Distance:24.8km Goal:160 minute
Date:13-12-09 Distance:28.1km Goal:190 minute
Here is the training schedule for this coming 2 months
Remark: Feeling found
Date:01-11-09 Distance:11.8km Goal:70minutesTime: 61 minutes
Remark:Finally, rust on my lung has been shaken off!!
Time: 70 minutes
Bonus : Gain Persistent and first breakdown
Bonus : Gain Persistent and first breakdown
Date:12-11-09 Distance:19.3 Goal:125 minute
Date:19-11-09 Distance:20.8km Goal: 135 minuteDate:22-11-09 Distance 22.2km Goal:145minute
Date:26-11-09 Distance:23.6km Goal:150minute
Date:29-11-09 Distance:24.8km Goal:160 minuteDate:3-12-09 Distance:26.2km Goal:170 minute
Date:6-12-09 Distance:27.6km Goal:180minute
Date:6-12-09 Distance:27.6km Goal:180minute
Date:10-12-09 Distance:27.6km Goal:180minute
Date:13-12-09 Distance:28.1km Goal:190 minuteApart from that , Monday,Wednesday and Friday will do work out while Tuesday and Saturday will have 5.6km tempo Run with final goal 6:20 minute per 1.4 km at the end ...
It is going to be tough and I have to take extra care towards my leg especially train on longer distance that I never run before, the muscles , is expected to be damaged, and rebuilt, until it is strong enough to run 30 km within 3 hours.
My personal record is 1:54 hours for 21km but it doesnt mean like simple calculus 1+1=2, to run for sub 3 ( below 3 hours) for 30km is another story , the pain , the mentally and physically exhaustion is far greater than 21km. However , it will take me to another level once I make it
Faster & Further
It is going to be tough and I have to take extra care towards my leg especially train on longer distance that I never run before, the muscles , is expected to be damaged, and rebuilt, until it is strong enough to run 30 km within 3 hours.
My personal record is 1:54 hours for 21km but it doesnt mean like simple calculus 1+1=2, to run for sub 3 ( below 3 hours) for 30km is another story , the pain , the mentally and physically exhaustion is far greater than 21km. However , it will take me to another level once I make it
Faster & Further
Sunday, October 18, 2009
__Summary__
Successfully kayak round 3 quarter of Penang Island
Arguement
Getting Ready
Evolution ?
Speechless
road show
Same style dumbass?
Tapering
1:54:51
Sick
Twilight
Haze
Men'shealthRun
In Blue
Rm5 per hour
1 week honeymoon
Imsonia
In control
Quarrel
CATIA-Epicyclic Gear Train
12-10 12-10 7-11 7-11 7-11
BBQ Gathering
4th place
MILLINg-White Mustache
Study Week
She Found Someone finally
AmINoob?????
National Park
Sunway Pyramid
Home Sweet Home
Doing nothing
Arguement
Getting Ready
Evolution ?
Speechless
road show
Same style dumbass?
Tapering
1:54:51
Sick
Twilight
Haze
Men'shealthRun
In Blue
Rm5 per hour
1 week honeymoon
Imsonia
In control
Quarrel
CATIA-Epicyclic Gear Train
12-10 12-10 7-11 7-11 7-11
BBQ Gathering
4th place
MILLINg-White Mustache
Study Week
She Found Someone finally
AmINoob?????
National Park
Sunway Pyramid
Home Sweet Home
Doing nothing
P.s shall back to track tomorrow onward
Thursday, August 27, 2009
__一路向北__
Song of Tonight
一路向北 by Jay Chou
後視鏡裡的世界 越來越遠的道別
你轉身向背 側臉還是很美
我用眼光去追 竟聽見你的淚
一路向北 by Jay Chou
後視鏡裡的世界 越來越遠的道別
你轉身向背 側臉還是很美
我用眼光去追 竟聽見你的淚
在車窗外面徘徊 是我錯失的機會
你站的方位 跟我中間隔著淚
街景一直在後退 你的崩潰在窗外零碎
我一路向北 離開有你的季節
你說你好累 已無法再愛上誰
風在山路吹 過往的畫面全都是我不對
細數慚愧 我傷你幾回
*Repeat *
我一路向北 離開有你的季節
方向盤周圍 迴轉著我的後悔
我加速超越 卻甩不掉緊緊跟隨的傷悲
細數慚愧 我傷你幾回
停止狼狽 就讓錯純粹
Monday, August 17, 2009
__What'sGoingOn__
ishhh... I have no idea what happen to my stupid brain ... nowadays i hardly sleep even i go on bed around 1030 pm and wake up at 5.45 to jog....Keep on rolling and rolling and just cant fall asleep as i wish ... something , i get scare when I turn off the light and lay on the bed , wondering how long I have to roll on bed again tonight ... developing sleeping phobia huh ? Sien tiok...
I miss those time I can sleep straight once I lay on bed ...isshhh....I guess I need more time to adjust back my sleeping habit ... sigh ...
I miss those time I can sleep straight once I lay on bed ...isshhh....I guess I need more time to adjust back my sleeping habit ... sigh ...
Monday, July 27, 2009
__Men's Health Run__
Well , me and dabo reach there around 730 pm , do a quick warm up before getting into the crowd. I am well stunned by the gorgeous building at Putrajaya and its clean street , the night scene is even more awesome!!! Due to lack of training last few weeks ( coughing , haze , study) , I have no any specific aim in this run, just want to enjoy it and do my best ...
Thank to my bao bei gal gal for always so support me in my run even everytime end up no time and energy pak tou with you after the run, bad bf I am >.<
The race start aroudn 8.00 pm ++ , it is VERY VERY HOT to run in night!!! After 1 to 2 km , most of the participant is sweating heavily already , first time to run in night and it is uncomfortable HOT!!! Due to the run is at putrajaya where the traffic is not so crowded , the road control is far smooth than SCKLM , we do not need to stop down and wait the cars to pass at the junction .
I finish with 58 minutes ++ , even though I dare not to think I am within 75th to qualify for the medal , but when the officer just hand me the CERT ONLY when i cross the line, my HEART SINK
After I get the isotonic drink and goodies beg , we rest on the greeny field , thank to my bao bei for massage my leg for me , hehe...
Another Snap
The Certificate
The race start aroudn 8.00 pm ++ , it is VERY VERY HOT to run in night!!! After 1 to 2 km , most of the participant is sweating heavily already , first time to run in night and it is uncomfortable HOT!!! Due to the run is at putrajaya where the traffic is not so crowded , the road control is far smooth than SCKLM , we do not need to stop down and wait the cars to pass at the junction .
I finish with 58 minutes ++ , even though I dare not to think I am within 75th to qualify for the medal , but when the officer just hand me the CERT ONLY when i cross the line, my HEART SINK
The CertificateThis is the 2nd run organised by men's health since last year , although they do double the participants limit up to 4000 people , but the medals is yet still for the top 75 finisher in each category , too bad I'm not one of them ....Hope that next year the certificate with come with the name and finishing time .
Next will be Penang Bridge International Marathon which I plan to join half marathon category ,
due to financial constraint, I wont be joining the Mizuno Wave Run this year
Next will be Penang Bridge International Marathon which I plan to join half marathon category ,
due to financial constraint, I wont be joining the Mizuno Wave Run this year
Saturday, July 18, 2009
__十年修得同船渡,百年修得共枕眠__
十年修得同船渡,百年修得共枕眠,做夫妻,是讲缘分的 原作者;温柔的慈悲
你选择的人未必是你今生的最爱,而选择你的人却最爱你的今生,乃至于来世...
十年修得同船渡,百年修得共枕眠,做夫妻,是讲缘分的。
所以,珍惜眼前人,珍惜眼前事。
懂得从平平淡淡的生活中体会出点点滴滴的感动。
这,就是幸福!
老太太醒过来了,心脏跳的忽快忽慢的,让她有些吃不消了..
老太太就想:差不多喽,自己要走,也就在这一两天喽.
老太太已经76岁了,身体倒还好,只是今年,大冷大热,对他们这些老年人,
是很致命的伤害呢,这不,自己就觉得从春节后,身体一天不如一天了,
老太太转头,看见旁边的暖椅上,躺着自己78岁的老头子,
心里,稍稍安慰了些.
太阳暖暖的,正在向天边垂落,
老太太就想起了和老头子,这一辈子的时光,
年轻时候,老太太是四邻八乡有名的美人儿,
说媒的人,踏破了她家好几块门槛,
可是,可是她早就心有所属,
她,看中了村中那个小学校里,唯一的教书先生.
那是个斯斯文文的年轻人,长着很好看的一双眼睛,
看着你的时候,满满的笑,让人就心醉的不行,
两个人曾经多次在村中的小道上迎面走过,
都只是短短的对视一眼,然后双双红了脸,低了头,
匆匆的擦肩而过.
短短的相遇,
却是两个人,最幸福的期待.
谁知那一年,她的父亲去外面采办年货,回来时遇到了土匪,
危急关头,被一个五大三粗的过路客,舍命救了下来,
还替父亲挨了深深的一刀,
在她家里养伤的时候,她在床前端茶递饭,完全是出于报答这个陌生男人,
对父亲的救命之恩.
等到这个汉子伤势渐好的时候,这个汉子就开始忙里忙外的,
几乎包揽了所有的农活和家务活,
别看他粗枝大叶的样子,竟是个全能手,
洗衣做饭,田间地头,春耕夏种,修修弄弄,竟没有他不会的活计,
把她的父母给欢喜的不行,就经常陶醉在四邻的夸奖和羡慕声中,
这让她非常心焦,因为她在一个晚上,偶然在父母的门外,
听到了父母亲,有意要招这个汉子入赘,
她就软软的靠在门边,没了主意.
第二天,故意去那条和教书先生经常偶遇的巷子,
徘徊了很久,都没有见到,
后来问了村里的一个孩子,
才知道那个教书先生,已经回城多日,
说是家中有事,要三个月后,才能回来.
那个教书先生再回来的时候,匆匆的跑到她家门口,
就看到了她家门上,
醒目而刺眼的大红喜字,
看见了院子里,一身红衣,
满眼幽怨的她.
从那天起,那个教书先生,就彻底的消失在她的生活中.
后来,后来就跟着那个汉子,安安心心的过起了日子,
新中国成立,三年自然灾害,十年**,改革开放,
风风雨雨,雨雨风风,两个人从农村来到城市,
相依为命,相互扶持,生儿育女,开枝散叶,
就到了现在,老态龙钟的样子..
不容易,实在不容易啊!
老太太这样想着,胸中有些发闷,就咳嗽起来,
惊醒了一旁午睡的老头子,
那老头子赶紧起身,关切的看着老太太,
就手,到了一杯水,
老太太就捧了暖暖的水杯,看着自己的男人,
想自己,和这个男人过了这一辈子,
还有什么遗憾吗?
好象没有吧?
这个男人,心思实在细腻的可以,
对这个家,也实在没话可说.再苦再难,
都把她们娘几个,照顾的妥妥当当的,
两个人虽然在一起,极少有什么话,却有着多年培养出来的默契,
有时候,就默默的坐在一起,手握着手,什么也不说,
都能静静的,坐上那么一天.
老太太就想起老头子为了这个家,付出的一切,
还记得一年秋天,二小子要上学,学费成了问题,
家里也好久没有见到荤腥了,
老头子就在屋子里坐了很久,然后起身说,去找人借,
找谁借?其时他们在那个城市,一个亲戚也没有,
寥寥的几家朋友,也都是一穷二白,
谁知到了傍晚,老头子果然就带回来了儿子的学费,
手里还破天荒的拎了一只活鸡!
那个晚上,一家人,暖暖活活的在一起,
好象过年一样的快乐.
可是,可是她却在晚上给老头子换衣服是,发现了袖弯里,有淡淡的一点血迹,
就赶紧去看熟睡中老头子的胳膊,
就看见了他肘弯处,一个醒目的针眼,还有好大一片淤青.
啊!这个汉子,这个男人!这个老头子!!
为了这个家,也是一身的病了,
快八十岁的人了,却每天依旧忙忙碌碌的,
仿佛是一台不知疲倦为何物的机器,
自己,自己当初嫁给他的时候,是多么多么的伤心,多么多么的不情愿啊.
现在牵手走了这么多年,却只有他一直陪在自己身边,
不离不弃,始终如一.
老太太这样想着,眼睛里就渐渐的潮湿起来,
忽然,就有些孩子气,
就轻声的问眼前这个男人:
老头子,说说看,如果有下辈子,还愿意和我做夫妻吗?
老头子被老太太这个突兀的问题,弄的愣了一下,
就展开满脸的核桃纹,笑的很神秘:
不一定喽,如果下辈子,我托生成了大官财主,就去找你,让你好好的跟我享享福,
如果,如果还是这么穷,就不喽,就帮着你,帮着你找一个有钱的人家,
我呢,我就在你家附近,远远的看着你,只要你能过得好,就成了.
老太太就很感动,就幸福的笑着说:
你个臭老头子,还在我家附近,
在我家附近干什么?
老头子就转头,认认真真的看着心爱的女人,
认认真真的说:
不干什么,就,就做个教书先生吧.
老太太就突然愣住了,哀伤的看着这个和自己共渡了一生的男人,
想说什么,却什么也说不出来,
眼里的泪,却无休无止的流了下来.
过了很久,老太太深情的说:
老头子,我要走了,抱抱我吧.
老头子就慢慢的起了身,轻轻的,轻轻的把老太太搂在怀里,
老太太就在老头子耳边,呢喃着说:
老头子,下辈子,咱,
还做夫妻啊……..
老太太和老头子的小孙女儿,放学回家的时候,
看到夕阳西下,火红的霞光,
将老头子和老太太满满的笼罩在一起.
就说:羞羞,爷爷,奶奶,看不出你们还这么浪漫啊.
就惊讶的发现,老太太和老头子,
幸福的相拥着,
已经双双去了.
后记:爱情是什么?
幸福是什么?
生活又是什么?
一点一滴,
零零碎碎,
百花烂漫,
倒海排山,
还有,还有就是掩埋在心底里的,
那一块小小的,隐秘不至的芳草地.
只要你此生去过,
了无遗憾.
十年修得同船渡,百年修得共枕眠,做夫妻,是讲缘分的。
所以,珍惜眼前人,珍惜眼前事。
懂得从平平淡淡的生活中体会出点点滴滴的感动。
这,就是幸福!
老太太醒过来了,心脏跳的忽快忽慢的,让她有些吃不消了..
老太太就想:差不多喽,自己要走,也就在这一两天喽.
老太太已经76岁了,身体倒还好,只是今年,大冷大热,对他们这些老年人,
是很致命的伤害呢,这不,自己就觉得从春节后,身体一天不如一天了,
老太太转头,看见旁边的暖椅上,躺着自己78岁的老头子,
心里,稍稍安慰了些.
太阳暖暖的,正在向天边垂落,
老太太就想起了和老头子,这一辈子的时光,
年轻时候,老太太是四邻八乡有名的美人儿,
说媒的人,踏破了她家好几块门槛,
可是,可是她早就心有所属,
她,看中了村中那个小学校里,唯一的教书先生.
那是个斯斯文文的年轻人,长着很好看的一双眼睛,
看着你的时候,满满的笑,让人就心醉的不行,
两个人曾经多次在村中的小道上迎面走过,
都只是短短的对视一眼,然后双双红了脸,低了头,
匆匆的擦肩而过.
短短的相遇,
却是两个人,最幸福的期待.
谁知那一年,她的父亲去外面采办年货,回来时遇到了土匪,
危急关头,被一个五大三粗的过路客,舍命救了下来,
还替父亲挨了深深的一刀,
在她家里养伤的时候,她在床前端茶递饭,完全是出于报答这个陌生男人,
对父亲的救命之恩.
等到这个汉子伤势渐好的时候,这个汉子就开始忙里忙外的,
几乎包揽了所有的农活和家务活,
别看他粗枝大叶的样子,竟是个全能手,
洗衣做饭,田间地头,春耕夏种,修修弄弄,竟没有他不会的活计,
把她的父母给欢喜的不行,就经常陶醉在四邻的夸奖和羡慕声中,
这让她非常心焦,因为她在一个晚上,偶然在父母的门外,
听到了父母亲,有意要招这个汉子入赘,
她就软软的靠在门边,没了主意.
第二天,故意去那条和教书先生经常偶遇的巷子,
徘徊了很久,都没有见到,
后来问了村里的一个孩子,
才知道那个教书先生,已经回城多日,
说是家中有事,要三个月后,才能回来.
那个教书先生再回来的时候,匆匆的跑到她家门口,
就看到了她家门上,
醒目而刺眼的大红喜字,
看见了院子里,一身红衣,
满眼幽怨的她.
从那天起,那个教书先生,就彻底的消失在她的生活中.
后来,后来就跟着那个汉子,安安心心的过起了日子,
新中国成立,三年自然灾害,十年**,改革开放,
风风雨雨,雨雨风风,两个人从农村来到城市,
相依为命,相互扶持,生儿育女,开枝散叶,
就到了现在,老态龙钟的样子..
不容易,实在不容易啊!
老太太这样想着,胸中有些发闷,就咳嗽起来,
惊醒了一旁午睡的老头子,
那老头子赶紧起身,关切的看着老太太,
就手,到了一杯水,
老太太就捧了暖暖的水杯,看着自己的男人,
想自己,和这个男人过了这一辈子,
还有什么遗憾吗?
好象没有吧?
这个男人,心思实在细腻的可以,
对这个家,也实在没话可说.再苦再难,
都把她们娘几个,照顾的妥妥当当的,
两个人虽然在一起,极少有什么话,却有着多年培养出来的默契,
有时候,就默默的坐在一起,手握着手,什么也不说,
都能静静的,坐上那么一天.
老太太就想起老头子为了这个家,付出的一切,
还记得一年秋天,二小子要上学,学费成了问题,
家里也好久没有见到荤腥了,
老头子就在屋子里坐了很久,然后起身说,去找人借,
找谁借?其时他们在那个城市,一个亲戚也没有,
寥寥的几家朋友,也都是一穷二白,
谁知到了傍晚,老头子果然就带回来了儿子的学费,
手里还破天荒的拎了一只活鸡!
那个晚上,一家人,暖暖活活的在一起,
好象过年一样的快乐.
可是,可是她却在晚上给老头子换衣服是,发现了袖弯里,有淡淡的一点血迹,
就赶紧去看熟睡中老头子的胳膊,
就看见了他肘弯处,一个醒目的针眼,还有好大一片淤青.
啊!这个汉子,这个男人!这个老头子!!
为了这个家,也是一身的病了,
快八十岁的人了,却每天依旧忙忙碌碌的,
仿佛是一台不知疲倦为何物的机器,
自己,自己当初嫁给他的时候,是多么多么的伤心,多么多么的不情愿啊.
现在牵手走了这么多年,却只有他一直陪在自己身边,
不离不弃,始终如一.
老太太这样想着,眼睛里就渐渐的潮湿起来,
忽然,就有些孩子气,
就轻声的问眼前这个男人:
老头子,说说看,如果有下辈子,还愿意和我做夫妻吗?
老头子被老太太这个突兀的问题,弄的愣了一下,
就展开满脸的核桃纹,笑的很神秘:
不一定喽,如果下辈子,我托生成了大官财主,就去找你,让你好好的跟我享享福,
如果,如果还是这么穷,就不喽,就帮着你,帮着你找一个有钱的人家,
我呢,我就在你家附近,远远的看着你,只要你能过得好,就成了.
老太太就很感动,就幸福的笑着说:
你个臭老头子,还在我家附近,
在我家附近干什么?
老头子就转头,认认真真的看着心爱的女人,
认认真真的说:
不干什么,就,就做个教书先生吧.
老太太就突然愣住了,哀伤的看着这个和自己共渡了一生的男人,
想说什么,却什么也说不出来,
眼里的泪,却无休无止的流了下来.
过了很久,老太太深情的说:
老头子,我要走了,抱抱我吧.
老头子就慢慢的起了身,轻轻的,轻轻的把老太太搂在怀里,
老太太就在老头子耳边,呢喃着说:
老头子,下辈子,咱,
还做夫妻啊……..
老太太和老头子的小孙女儿,放学回家的时候,
看到夕阳西下,火红的霞光,
将老头子和老太太满满的笼罩在一起.
就说:羞羞,爷爷,奶奶,看不出你们还这么浪漫啊.
就惊讶的发现,老太太和老头子,
幸福的相拥着,
已经双双去了.
后记:爱情是什么?
幸福是什么?
生活又是什么?
一点一滴,
零零碎碎,
百花烂漫,
倒海排山,
还有,还有就是掩埋在心底里的,
那一块小小的,隐秘不至的芳草地.
只要你此生去过,
了无遗憾.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
__Men's Health & Shape Run 2009__
Shape & Men's Health Night Run 2009 Is COMING!!

Pass through the Putrajaya Mosque before heading back to the starting point
at PUTRAJAYA

and then Seri Wawasan bridge
Pass through the Putrajaya Mosque before heading back to the starting pointThe total run is 11.5 km and the medals are only for the top 75 finishers.
If I want to complete it in 50 minute mean I have to run 1 minute 45 second for every 400 m,
I dont think I can make it , especially I have been coughing for 2 weeks hence lack of training ..
What result I will get ? We'll see
If I want to complete it in 50 minute mean I have to run 1 minute 45 second for every 400 m,
I dont think I can make it , especially I have been coughing for 2 weeks hence lack of training ..
What result I will get ? We'll see
Sunday, July 5, 2009
__SCKLM__

Well , the big days I have been waiting for , 28/6/09 , SCKLM, Standard Chartered KL Marathon, 2000++ participants in Full Marathon, 3000++ participant Half Marathon and 7000++ for 10 km, the first half marathon in my life
wake up at 3 , take a cold shower and have some simple breakfast before take motor from Mungz and Dom's GPS handphone ...riding the motor in the cold wind for 25km ++ is not fun anyway , yet the warm hug from the leng lui behind me make me feel better : )
By the time we reach Dataran Merdeka, the gun shooting signal for Full Marathon had sounded, exactly 5 .The first thing I do is to find my Cari Running Friends to take my vest , and of course not forgeting some shot with them
The run start at 615 am and I finish in
The moment I'm crossing the line , thx to whoever took it
Official Result:
| Name: | ONG GHEE OON (MAS) | ||
| Net Start: | 06:13:01 | Category: | Half Marathon 21km |
| Net Time: | 01:54:51 | Position: | 142 |
| Finish Timing: | 01:54:51.00 | ||
every droplet of sweat mark my effort ,
and the medals is what I get for
I do not mean to say all of the long distance runners are determined and delicated, but those who are not , would not be able to complete the run
NEXT: Men'shealth 2009 Night Run at Putrajaya on 25/7/09
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